I've got a closet full of t-shirts that read "I'm stuck again, start over." And let me tell you, constantly starting over can be such a downer. It feels like I'm not making any progress at all. The frustration of being boxed in or chained to a place I don't want to be is real.

If you're feeling stuck too, you're not alone.

As we welcome 2024, we’re halfway through the first month of twelve. Surely, we’ve hit a little turbulence by now. Last week we talked about embracing imperfection to keep moving forward. Today let’s talk about spontaneity. It's about tapping into the deepest parts of oneself, free from external narratives, societal norms, and cultural expectations.

Say it loud and proud, "I am imperfect." In a world full of beautifully flawed creatures, living imperfect lives in an imperfect world, imperfection is our common ground. I hope this is a welcoming reminder to take it easy and lighten up as you pursue your new beginnings and revitalizations. Chill out, Sis! God got you! You got this. You show up ready and what is meant to be will come.

Deep introspection and solitude have their purpose in your journey for self-awareness, self-discovery, and life transformation. This should be a tool in your toolbox not a staple in your lifestyle.

Remember, recognizing self-sabotage is the first powerful step towards kicking it to the curb. Unmask it, confront it, and watch as you propel yourself toward growth and success.

Take a seat for a few minutes and listen, my sisters! Today, I'm talking to all my busy queens out there, all you amazing women juggling a million tasks and ticking off your never-ending to-do lists. Ever feel like you're running on a treadmill, going nowhere fast? Like you're a hamster on a wheel in the world's most boring pet shop? Like you're stuck in the stickiest of the stickiest? Well, my sister, it's time to unstick yourself!

With self-awareness, you can flip your life script. You can shake off the self-sabotage shackles, rise above the chaos, and find your own calm amidst the crazy. And remember, you're not in this alone. We're all on this ride together – striving for a life that's as balanced as it is fulfilling.

Social media can sometimes deceive us with highlight reels, but it's crucial to remember that those successful moments are often preceded by struggles and hard work. We all have our stories, and we mustn't forget that behind those polished images lie challenges and sacrifices. Transparency is vital, my friends; it's how we let others know they're not alone in their struggles.