Are you missing something? Probably, hope.

To the courageous women standing on the edge of the cliff of life transformation, I want to speak directly to your hearts today. You, who are standing at the crossroads of change, battling inner demons and external challenges, I want you to know that there is a guiding light, a force that will carry you through the darkest of times, and that force is hope. 

Hope is not just a word; it's a lifeline, a beacon of possibility in a world that may have seemed bleak for far too long. If you're wondering what hope truly looks and feels like, let me paint a picture for you, because understanding hope is the first step towards embracing its power in your journey.

1. Hope is a Flicker in the Darkness:

Imagine yourself in a pitch-black room, and in the corner, there's a small flickering candle. That candle is hope. It may be tiny, and the room might seem overwhelmingly dark, but that flicker represents the potential for change. Hope, like that candle, is often the smallest glimmer of possibility that can illuminate your path.

2. Hope Feels Like a Gentle Whisper:

Hope doesn't scream at you; it whispers softly in your ear. It's that quiet voice that tells you not to give up, even when everything around you suggests otherwise. It's the reassurance that there is a way forward, even if you can't see it clearly just yet.

3. Hope is a Resilient Heartbeat:

Picture your heart as a drum, beating steadily in your chest. Hope is the rhythm of that heartbeat. It keeps you going, reminding you that as long as it's there, there is life, there is potential, and there is the capacity for transformation. Even in the face of adversity, hope's heartbeat persists.

4. Hope Looks Like a Bridge:

In the landscape of your life, hope appears as a bridge that connects your present to your future. It's the structure that enables you to cross over from despair to possibility. When you're standing on the edge, gazing at the unknown, hope extends its hand, inviting you to take that first step.

5. Hope is a Blank Canvas:

Think of hope as a blank canvas. It's the empty space waiting for you to paint your dreams and aspirations. It provides you with the opportunity to create a new reality, free from the limitations of your past and present.

6. Hope is a Spark of Courage:

Courage and hope are intertwined. Hope fuels the courage you need to face your fears and tackle the challenges that stand in your way. It's the inner spark that propels you to take action, even when the path ahead is uncertain.

7. Hope Resides in Community:

Hope flourishes in the company of others who believe in your potential and support your journey. Surround yourself with a community of like-minded women who understand your struggles and share your hopes. Together, you can uplift and inspire one another. Check out my meetup groups for a community of women also on the journey of transformation.

So, my friends, in need of life transformation, I want you to recognize that hope is not an abstract concept. It's a tangible and powerful force that can shape your destiny. It looks like that glimmer of possibility, feels like a gentle whisper, and acts as a bridge to your brighter future.

Hope comes from Who, what, and why we believe. Hope is fueled by our faith. Faith in Divine love and intervention. Faith in the power of God that lives within us and is limitless. Faith in our own strength and abilities - even as limited as they may be. 

We put our hope in the Lord.

    He is our help and our shield.

 In Him, our hearts rejoice,

    for we trust in his holy name.

Let your unfailing love surround us, Lord,

    for our hope is in you alone.

Psalm 33:20-22

As you navigate the challenges and uncertainties on your path to transformation, hold on to that flicker of hope, no matter how small it may seem at times. Let it guide you, inspire you, and empower you to take each step forward. With hope as your companion, you can transform your life in ways you never thought possible. The journey may be tough, but hope makes it all worthwhile.

Some things to ponder:

What is the flicker of hope in your life right now?

Identify the specific areas or moments in your life right now where you can see a glimmer of hope. 

For me, looking into my grandson’s eyes ignited a new fire that shined even brighter than the one my girls burned within me. That was the glimmer of hope to not grow weary on this years-long journey I’ve been on. 

What bridges can hope help you build towards your desired future?

Consider the goals or dreams you can work towards with hope as your guiding bridge.

Personally, a decades-long dream to marry entrepreneurship with investing in others was always the dream I couldn’t shake away. That was always my guiding bridge. 

What sparks of courage can you ignite with hope as your ally?

Think about specific actions you can take, fueled by your hope for change.

This is where tapping into your inner motivation, creating a moderation strategy, and acquiring the management skills to make your actions worthwhile ignite the fuel.  

Let me know if this is helpful! It really is in your hands, my sister! Be empowered.